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\u00abJe veux l\u00e2cher prise, mais \u00e0 mes conditions ! \u00bb<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Il y a des gens qui r\u00eavent de perdre le contr\u00f4le, \u00e0 condition de garder la t\u00e9l\u00e9commande. Ils veulent \u00eatre surpris, mais pr\u00e9venus suffisamment t\u00f4t pour organiser la surprise. Ils souhaitent s’abandonner, mais apr\u00e8s avoir v\u00e9rifi\u00e9 le programme, les horaires, les modalit\u00e9s et, si possible, les conditions d’annulation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Je les comprends. Nous vivons une \u00e9poque o\u00f9 l’on peut suivre la livraison de ses chaussettes \u00e0 la minute pr\u00e8s. Il serait donc presque inconvenant de s’aventurer dans les territoires du d\u00e9sir sans disposer d’un itin\u00e9raire d\u00e9taill\u00e9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Imaginons un candidat \u00e0 la soumission. Appelons-le Monsieur Pr\u00e9voyant. Avant m\u00eame notre rencontre, il m’adresse un message d’une pr\u00e9cision remarquable. Ses envies sont soigneusement r\u00e9pertori\u00e9es, ses pr\u00e9f\u00e9rences class\u00e9es par ordre alphab\u00e9tique et ses interrogations occupent trois pages. Jusque-l\u00e0, rien \u00e0 redire. Une Dame avis\u00e9e appr\u00e9cie les personnes capables d’exprimer leurs attentes et leurs limites.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mais Monsieur Pr\u00e9voyant ne s’arr\u00eate pas en si bon chemin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Il souhaite conna\u00eetre le d\u00e9roulement exact de notre rencontre, les paroles que je pourrais prononcer, les moments o\u00f9 il devra se montrer docile et ceux o\u00f9 je pourrais \u00e9ventuellement faire preuve d’imagination. Il envisage m\u00eame de me communiquer les r\u00e9pliques qu’il aimerait entendre.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c0 ce stade, je ne sais plus tr\u00e8s bien s’il recherche une Dominatrice <\/a>ou une com\u00e9dienne charg\u00e9e d’interpr\u00e9ter un sc\u00e9nario dont il aurait d\u00e9pos\u00e9 les droits.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Le paradoxe m\u00e9rite pourtant mieux qu’une simple moquerie. Notre soci\u00e9t\u00e9 nous encourage \u00e0 tout ma\u00eetriser : notre emploi du temps, notre alimentation, notre sommeil et jusqu’au nombre de pas effectu\u00e9s avant le d\u00eener. Les montres connect\u00e9es nous f\u00e9licitent lorsque nous respirons correctement. Bient\u00f4t, elles nous reprocheront de r\u00eaver sans autorisation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dans ce grand concours de ma\u00eetrise de soi, l’id\u00e9e de confier momentan\u00e9ment les commandes \u00e0 une autre personne poss\u00e8de un attrait singulier. Il ne s’agit pas n\u00e9cessairement d’ob\u00e9ir par faiblesse, encore moins de renoncer \u00e0 sa volont\u00e9. Il s’agit parfois de s’accorder le luxe de ne plus d\u00e9cider.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Un luxe devenu suffisamment rare pour m\u00e9riter quelques explications.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Car il existe une diff\u00e9rence fondamentale entre \u00e9tablir un cadre et vouloir diriger chaque instant de ce qui doit s’y d\u00e9rouler. Dans une relation BDSM<\/a>, les limites ne sont pas des accessoires que l’on abandonne au vestiaire. Le consentement, les pr\u00e9cautions, les refus et les modalit\u00e9s d’arr\u00eat se discutent avant toute exp\u00e9rience et restent valables pendant celle-ci. Chacun conserve le droit de retirer son accord.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cette clart\u00e9 n’entrave pas l’abandon. Elle le rend possible.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pour le reste, l’imagination a parfois besoin d’un peu d’espace. Une h\u00e9sitation, un silence, une consigne inattendue dans les limites convenues peuvent susciter davantage d’\u00e9motions qu’un programme parfaitement ex\u00e9cut\u00e9. \u00c0 force de vouloir tout pr\u00e9voir, on finit par supprimer ce que l’on \u00e9tait pr\u00e9cis\u00e9ment venu chercher : la d\u00e9couverte.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

J’observe d’ailleurs ce travers bien au-del\u00e0 de mon univers. Certains souhaitent vivre une passion, mais exigent des garanties contre le chagrin. D’autres veulent voyager \u00e0 l’aventure, \u00e0 condition que les h\u00f4tels disposent d’excellentes \u00e9valuations et que le restaurant soit r\u00e9serv\u00e9 trois semaines \u00e0 l’avance. Quant aux amateurs de spontan\u00e9it\u00e9, ils pr\u00e9voient volontiers un cr\u00e9neau le jeudi, entre dix-huit et dix-neuf heures.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Il faut reconna\u00eetre que l’humanit\u00e9 poss\u00e8de un talent remarquable pour organiser ses propres contradictions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Alors, \u00e0 Monsieur Pr\u00e9voyant, je ne conseillerais nullement d’oublier ses limites. Je lui sugg\u00e9rerais simplement de laisser une petite place \u00e0 ce qui ne figure pas dans son dossier. Nous prendrions le temps de d\u00e9finir ensemble un cadre clair, de v\u00e9rifier que chacun s’y reconna\u00eet et de d\u00e9cider ce qui peut rester ouvert \u00e0 l’improvisation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Apr\u00e8s quoi, peut-\u00eatre pourrait-il enfin d\u00e9couvrir le plaisir de ne pas avoir r\u00e9ponse \u00e0 tout.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Car pour apprendre \u00e0 l\u00e2cher prise, encore faut-il accepter de ne pas tenir soi-m\u00eame la laisse.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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